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This month The Teen starts both her senior yr and turns xviii. That has got me all upwards in my feelings and I've been looking through a lot of pictures and telling a lot of stories. The summer before The Teen started the 6th grade I drove her to the airport and waited with her to board a planet all alone to spend the summer with her all-time friend. Near fifteen minutes before we boarded the aeroplane she looks at me and says, I think I merely started my period. So we went to the bathroom and sure enough, she had. Not simply a footling, merely a lot. So I rushed to the airport store where I bought 4 of the biggest pads for $20.00 and chop-chop told reminded her what to practice. As she boarded the airplane all by herself I reminded her to bank check about half mode through the flying. I then kissed her adieu and called her best friend's mom and ride abode from the airdrome to tell her what had happened and asking her to please accept her to the store, getting her make clean clothes – seriously, I'm non kidding when I tell you that she didn't start with some spotting only with an actual blood bath, her clothes looked like a murder scene.

And that is the story of how my first child started her period and I sent her off lonely on a flight of strangers to navigate this new globe all past herself. Don't worry, we've laughed a lot about this story over the years and I have her permission to share this with you here. Periods are not a big deal, everyone with a uterus volition have them at some signal in their lives. Like many things, we believe in talking about them openly to help erase the stigma and shame of this very normal biological function.

From time to time, I will read a book that mentions period and think, yeah! I'grand so glad they mentioned this. I will run across others do the same on various social media and blogging platforms. The talk about the representation near menses is not new or unique, it's such an nether-represented bug that you tin can Google the topics and detect lots of respected volume bloggers and librarians talking about this topic and sharing their favorite book recommendations. We've fifty-fifty talked most it here at TLT. Today I'm going to share 5 of my favorites so link you to a Twitter word chock full of MG and YA lit recommendations that talk nearly periods and menstruation.

Go with the Catamenia by Lily Williams

Go with the Flow is a graphic novel written for ages middle grade and upward and information technology's an excellent read. It's unique in that the impress on every folio is all in scarlet ink, with a wink flash nudge nudge to menstrual flow. Just more importantly, it's a true to life story about a group of friends all wrestling with growing up in their own means and in their own times and yes, periods are a part of that process.

The Only Black Girls in Town past Brandy Colbert

Brandy Colbert is an phenomenal and award winning YA writer who has recently written some centre grade. The Only Blackness Girls in Town is Colbert's debut middle grade novel and it tells the story of ii black girls who discover a hidden journal that reveals town secrets. This is a moving book about friendship and racism that also mentions menstruation.

The Line Tender past Kate Allen

The Line Tender past Kate Allen is a story near friendship and grief. It'southward a beautiful and moving book of a young girl whose mother has died and her friendship, with a immature male child, is changing in part because she can't effigy out how to deal with her grief. I honey this book because it talks about sharks and it'due south a beautifully written journeying through parental grief, just amid those pages our main character starts her period without her mom and it packs a powerful punch. Many young women must navigate their monthly cycles without a mom and it is moving to come across their truth acknowledged on the page. And I dear that it is a male friend who helps Lucy navigate this.

Fred had opened the door when I'd knocked. I'd asked him if whatsoever of the females of the house were available. Of form they weren't, so I marched up to the bathroom without proverb a give-and-take. The linen cabinet had been stuffed with feminine hygiene supplies, a city of boxes. I'd grabbed a few of each variety and stuffed them into my shorts, saving one pad to wear home.

When I'd opened the door, Fred was continuing at that place.

'I got my period,' I'd told him.

'Oh,' he'd said. And I was surprised past how unaffected he'd seemed, like I'd told him I'd replaced the toilet paper curlicue.

He'd put his hand on my shoulder, to gently move me aside and started earthworks in the linen cabinet.

'What are you doing?' I'd asked.

'Hither,' he'd said, handing me a bottle of Midol.

'What'south this for?' I'd asked, though I'd seen it on Tv.

'It "relieves the symptoms of premenstrual syndrome",' he read from the bottle.

'Merely I recall I have menstrual syndrome.' I'd said.

He shook his head and pushed the bottle into my hand. 'I retrieve it'southward all the aforementioned.'"

Other Words for Home by Jasmine Warga

Jude is a Syrian refugee on her way to Cincinnati and this moving wait at the life of a refugee. This is a story about a young Muslim girl trying to navigate a hole bunch of change all at once, including her changing body. And for Jude, starting her menstruation as well means that she gets to decide whether or not she will cull to article of clothing a hijab. Equally a white woman raising white girls, I appreciated this beautiful, moving story nigh trying to observe your identify in the world that also allowed me to glimpse a life that is dissimilar from my own.

Though the above titles mentioned are dandy for heart grade readers and oftentimes talk nigh getting your offset period, there are lots of YA books that merely acknowledge that periods are a part of every day life for many teens. My favorite contempo read is Exist Not Far From Me by Mindy McGinnis.

Be Not Far From Me past Mindy McGinnis

McGinnis lives in rural Ohio and is i of my get to authors for realistic and moving depictions of both rural life and poverty. She also is a neat author for kick ass women and nature. Be Non Far From Me includes all of these things. While camping with friends – and on her flow – Ashley finds herself lost in the forest and trying to discover her mode home. It starts out with a casual no big deal mention that Ashley is on her period, because that's how life is for those of the states who have them, and escalates in to more than when Ashley is bleeding her fashion lone and wandering lost in the wilderness. Information technology'southward similar The Wandering Dead just without the zombies and an acknowledgement that teen girls have periods.

These are merely a few of the books I've read recently that talks about periods and puberty. But my friends on Twitter had tons of other great recs that you tin can read if y'all follow this thread:

I know others have on occasion mentioned this, just I would like to make a comprehensive updated list of MG and YA that even just mentions menstruation/periods. Can you please reply with your recs? Greatly appreciated.
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